Becoming The Emotional Favorite
So, if being the emotional favorite means being the person the buyer want to see succeed, how do you create this relationship?
Start by asking questions about the buyer when you meet for the very first time and at the end of EVERY sales call.
Think about the last time you encountered a ‘stereotypical’ sales person, the one who immediately launches into a sales pitch. How did you react? After a minute or two, did your eyes glaze over? As the sales person drones on, you stop listening waiting for an opportunity to end the conversation. Ultimately, that sales person falls to the bottom of the list of people you call when you need something. Not where you want to be if you’re looking to become the Emotional Favorite.
Asking The Right Questions
Obviously, you’re not going to start with ‘Hi, I’m Craig. What’s your greatest challenge?’
Start with open-ended questions: Ask about how the latest government policy changes, or shifts in technology has impacted their business. Relate their business to your other industry contacts and share some of your own insights. Then you can ask about their greatest challenges and you will likely get the answers you are looking for.
Frame your questions outside your existing sales professional to prospect relationship because by default, your customer will answer in terms of your products or services. Start with “Let’s forget about what I do for ABC Company for a minute” and ask:
- What is the biggest issue you have that you just can’t get to? or,
- What is the one thing you are looking for but can’t seem to find? or,
- What issue have you tried to solve but can’t find a satisfactory solution to?
Now shut up and listen! When the buyer stops talking, wait 6 seconds and listen to what they tell you next. First they’ll tell you about the problem. If you don’t interrupt them, they will tell you how the problem impacts them and the rest of their organization.
Now you have the enough information to connect the buyer with a solution and if it’s not available through you perhaps you know a colleague who can solve the problem. If you don’t know a colleague who can solve the problem, connect the buyer with a trusted seller using a lead exchange that has a rating system for the vendors in the exchange.
What Are The Benefits Of Asking The Right Questions?
- You gain a better understanding of buyers and their organization.
- You will improve your customer relationships while buyers do not need what you sell.
- You will get more time with buyers
- You may learn of opportunities to sell
- You can become the person buyers want to see succeed, by connecting them with trusted vendors who can provide the solution they are looking for
Most customers don’t tell you of needs they think are unrelated to what you sell. When you ask the right questions, you learn of opportunities to add value to buyers, become the person they want to see succeed, and get called first when they want what you sell.
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Craig Elias is a 15-year sales veteran, noted speaker and author on sales and networking, and the Founder of InnerSell - an online sales tool used by sales professionals so that no matter what their customer needs they can get it through them. Learn more by contacting Craig by phone (866.744.7904), email ([email protected]), or visiting www.InnerSell.com.
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